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Jason English runs mountain bike skills sessions for 70-80 school kids a week out at Glenrock, plus events. Photo: Flow Mountain Bike
“Outside of mountain biking, we're building friends,” Jason said. “We're building resilience skills.”
He explained that the kids and teens he coaches learn to encourage each other even when things get tough. “You see that they have to learn to speak positively and they learn how to talk to their friends when they don't succeed,” he said.
“Do I pay them out and do I use these negative words? Or do we encourage building up positive language?” he said.
“So that's a big part of what our coaches are doing. And that part of coaching is to teach people how to deal with failure. That is it okay to fail. And then what happens next."
He spoke about trying something a few times, then doing something that makes people feel good again, then returning to the original thing again later, perhaps trying it with a different approach.
This section of the interview was one of the last parts of the Glenrock article that got cut in the final-final-final-final edits. While it was one of many favourite stories within the bigger story, it pushed the article in too many directions. This was more of an Intelligent Action direction than a history-of-Glenrock direction.
But those words keep resonating. I keep thinking what a terrific thing it is that time spent learning something new - the struggling, the failing, the working it out, the overcoming, the success - not only teaches us about how to support this process in ourselves but how to support others. What to say. What not to say. When to push. When to pause.
Sharing the learning process with friends as an adult can make the world of difference too. Thanks to Laura Renshaw (left) for some great times experimenting with new lines on our local trails recently. Photo: Laura Renshaw and her go-go-Gadget arms!
There are a few different definitions of resilience, but the one I like best emphasises that being resilient isn't just about getting through something hard and coming out the other side. It's about building the skills that allow you to adapt flexibly as you cope with challenges you haven't experienced yet. I used this as the foundation for resilience workshops I ran last year and hope to run again. I love how these school age riders are learning this through biking: how to support each other and how to support themselves, in ways that carry forward.
Take a moment before jumping to the next task in your day and reflect on this for yourself. What skills have translated for you in surprising ways to make you more resilient? How have abilities you've built in one area of your life translated to challenges in another? How has something from your sport life supported a tricky moment in your work or home life? And how have the skills you've developed through work or study translated in surprising ways to something you love doing outside of that?
These are prompts to get you thinking in ways that will pay forward next time an unexpected challenge pops up. Little building blocks to recognising the resilience you already posses, increasing your trust in what you can take with you into the future, and why time spent doing one thing might be really valuable in supporting another. If you get the urge to email me your thoughts, I always love hearing that stuff! Your story could inspire someone else!
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Behind the scenes at Intelligent Action
After talking to people about live workshops for a while now, I've finally built a webpage to support that. If you're interested in using these as a starting point to a conversation about these sessions or other ideas, please get in touch.
Also: my favourite t-shirts are getting deoderant stains on them from wearing them too often while doing my favourite things. But more than that, I've absolutely loved the images and stories people have been sending through over the last year wearing their own Intelligent Action tees doing their favourite things!....So I've mocked up some new tee and hoodie designs for 2025 and sent them off to a local printer here in Newcastle to see what they turn out like in real life.
New terrain for your brain, from Dr Kath Bicknell at Intelligent Action
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